Hay. This is the first post of the #AlfaRizkistories :) this won't be long tho, maybe 2 or 3 pots hehe
Maybe I will start with story in November 2020. So, We planed to postpone to have a child until at least 8 months of marriage (wow so specific!) and in our 11 months of marriage, which in November 2020, I got pregnant.
We were sooooooo happy and grateful :) and relief, because no more ditanyain "udah isi belum"hmmm tough couple life as Indonesian :( however I also panic when I knew that I'm pregnant. I wasn't really prepare for it. Then I watched videos and read articles about pregnancy. I did Yoga everyday, literally everyday, following the move in Youtube. Oya the Youtube channel is Pregnancy and Postpartum TV. There are many videos of Yoga, HIIT, Pilates, you name it. For a person who doing Yoga regularly like me, her video is really help to reduce lower back pain, shoulder and neck pain and also stress. Because I realized that being pregnant is so prone to stress. So many people will told you about what the best for you and your baby. Sometimes I feel like they know better about me and my baby instead of me.
Back to the story of my pregnancy Journey, I did my own test with test pack for about 5 times hehe, meaning its 5 days in a row test. Just to make sure that I really pregnant. and also because I bought the cheapest testpack tho hahhaha, I bought 5 for Rp 10.000,- wkwkwkw the brand is OneMed in case you curious hehehe
After the test I took myself, I visited the Obsgyn in her own clinic. Actually I planned to visit her before I knew I was pregnant, because I wanna take pregnancy program. I and Hisa agree on that. After 1 year of marriage, if I haven't get pregnant, we want to consult and take some test. but Alhamdulillah I got pregnant on our 11 months of marriage. Therefore the doctor visit was to check my pregnancy not for the precnancy program hehehe. After USG, doctor said I'm pregnant and she gave me vitamins. The Gestational Age is 5 weeks, so it is predicted the due date will be on 15 July 2021
After read some rticles about pregnancy in first trimester, the most important supplement is Folid Acid, WHICH I didn't get it from my Obsgyn. I cried because I'm afraid something will happen to my baby because I didn't consume Folid Acid wkwkwkw I feel so stupid for crying because of that thing. But maybe its because of hormones :P After consult to another doctor in HaloDoc, I got the folid acid. and I didn't consume the vitamin from my Obsgyn anymore hehehe
After that I told my family, my parents and my parents in law that I'm pregnant. They were so Happy to know that. They became protective and give me ALL the (what's they think it is) good food. Morning sickness is real. however, it was not that bad, I mean I still could eat everything EXCEPT Chicken and egg.
The next 3 weeks, which 8 weeks of my pregnancy, I went to another Obsgyn. She is dr. Arsi Palupi. She is my sister in law's doctor as well, and my in law said that dr. Arsi is good. therefore I went check up and consult with her in Rachmi Woman and Children Hospital. I planned to give birth there. I think in this pandemic situation, choosing Woman and Children Hospital is safer than general hospital. From the USG she told me that all is good and she gave me Folid Acid (yeahhh give me that!! thats what I want! hahaha). The Gestational Age was 7 weeks, and the due date is on 20 July 2021. There were differences between the Gestational age and my pregnancy age, but it is still in normal range. I worried about it at first, so I watched videos on Youtube about how to calculate pregnancy age and read articles about it. So it says that since the differences is not more than 2 weeks and the baby is healthy, its okay, its normal. No need to worry ya Ibuk ibukk hehee
Okay,its already long story, I will continue my story in the next post :)
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